Tue. Sep 22nd, 2020

Teaching Social Skills in the School Environment

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Whether a student is having difficulty mastering an academic or social task, the teacher should respond by reviewing data to design targeted instruction that addresses the skill deficit. Since most academic environments have expectations for both academic and social behaviors, effective social skills instruction should be infused into the general education curriculum (Miller, et al. 2010).

Teaching Social Skills as Part of the Classroom Management Plan

Ms. Sanchez was prepared for her third-grade students to arrive in her classroom on the first day of school. Three of her students had learning disabilities in reading and behavioral challenges. She had designed a classroom management plan that included teaching classroom procedures and routines around the school-wide expectations: Be Respectful, Be Responsible, and Be Safe. She had carefully considered the social skills, such as listening to others, raising one’s hand to signal for help and staying seated during independent seat work, that were important for her students to successfully access the curriculum and to create a positive classroom culture. She embedded the skills into the following classroom matrix (Figure 1) which she posted as a reminder to the students.

Figure 1. Classroom Matrix (download as a pdf) Classroom Matrix

In addition to the matrix, she explicitly taught each skill within the context of the each classroom learning environment (e.g. cooperative learning groups, independent seat work, arrival at school). Additionally, she taught her students the Focusing Together Strategy (Rademacher, Pemberton & Cheever, 2006) an evidence-based, self-management strategy, to support the development of conscientious work habits, respect for the classroom community, and emotional and physical safety. Lastly, she developed a data collection tool (Figure 2) to assist her with tracking progress on individual students who may not be responsive to the initial whole class instruction.

Figure 2. Data Collection Tool (download as a pdf)


Samantha, a student in Ms. Sanchez’s class, has a reading disability and behavioral difficulties. Ms. Sanchez’s data indicated that Samantha was having difficulty following the expectations for independent seatwork that required her to read independently. During assignments, Samantha talked to other students and was frequently out of her seat. If Ms. Sanchez did not immediately come to Samantha’s desk when she raised her hand for help,  Samantha called out to the teacher, pushed her reading materials away from her, put her head on her desk, and sighed loudly.

After reviewing the data and talking with Samantha, Ms. Sanchez and Samantha decided to focus their attention on the behaviors that were most distracting to her and the other students. These behaviors included asking and waiting for help appropriately and remaining in her seat during independent seat work. Ms. Sanchez reviewed the strategies and expectations with Samantha, and provided her with three bookmarks (Figure 3) so she could monitor her own behavior when she needed help from the teacher during independent seatwork. Samantha’s reading difficulties were contributing to her behavior, so Ms. Sanchez and Samantha’s special education teacher also provided additional academic support.

 Figure 3. Bookmarks (download as pdf)


With practice and reminders from Ms. Sanchez, Samantha was able to use the visual cues to stay on task and ask for help in a way that was not disruptive to her or her classmates. Her classmates also began to help Samantha when the teacher was not immediately available. Samantha liked using the bookmarks and enjoyed the positive attention that she received from Ms. Sanchez and her classmates. Her grades improved, and she started using the strategies in other classes and non-academic environments as well.

Regardless of the method or strategy that teachers use to teach social skills, it is important to follow an instructional format for social skills instruction:

  • Identify the social skill to be taught,
  • Explain the importance of the social skill,
  • Model the skill,
  • Provide examples,
  • Allow for guided practice,
  • Provide opportunities for independent practice, and
  • Continue to monitor student progress (Miller, et al., 2010).

Positive social behavior is a win-win situation for teachers and students. Students experience better peer and teacher relationships and teachers spend less time addressing negative behavior (Vincent, et al., 2003). There are several ways to approach the instruction of social skills within the general education curriculum. The Book in a Bag strategy (Marchant & Womack, 2010) is one example (see Figure 4). Check out the resources below for additional information about teaching social skills in the school environment.

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